When most people picture buying a home, they imagine doing it alone or with a spouse. But for many people today, that path isn’t realistic. People are getting married later (or not at all), and in 2024 and 2025 home prices remained high while interest rates climbed. That combination pushed more buyers to look for creative ways to purchase, one of them being co-buying with friends or family.
While it may feel like a new trend, co-buying isn’t new at all. People have long partnered to buy homes for many reasons: contract workers without traditional W-2 income, younger buyers who want to get in sooner rather than later, or families choosing to live closer together to share resources and reduce costs like childcare.
When you look at today’s housing market alongside shifting lifestyle priorities and a growing openness to doing things differently, co-buying offers a real, viable alternative for many.
Shared ownership can take many forms, and for a lot of people, one of them could work beautifully. The challenge isn’t that it’s unrealistic; it’s that many haven’t been exposed to the possibilities yet. There’s no single “right” way to do it. The best structure is the one that aligns with your relationship, finances, and long-term goals.
Below are some of the most common ways people buy homes together, along with what to consider in each scenario.
Friends buying together is more common than ever, especially for first-time buyers.
This structure often works well when:
Everyone is financially independent
Communication is direct and honest
Roles and expectations are clearly defined
Friends may:
Live together full-time
Combine a primary residence with a rental unit.
For example buying a primary home to live in together that has a tiny house in the back to rent out or buying a bigger home to rent out additional rooms.
Buy an investment or second home together.
This could be a true “investment property” that you rent out long term or short term to others or a vacation home you buy to visit but rent out when you are not there.
What to talk through early:
How decisions will be made
How expenses are shared
What happens if one person wants out
Clear agreements and shared systems matter most here, because the relationship isn’t built around long term legal or family ties.
Siblings often bring a high level of trust, but that doesn’t replace structure.
This setup is common when:
One sibling lives in the home and the other invests
I’ve actually done this myself! My sister was living in NYC and I was in Austin, and we bought together because I was a contract worker without a W-2, and she was living in a city where buying didn’t feel accessible at the time. Partnering made it possible for both of us.
Siblings want to keep a property in the family
There’s shared financial history or long term planning
What to be mindful of:
Differing life timelines
Future partners or families
Emotional dynamics that can complicate decisions
Treat this like a business partnership with care. Written agreements protect both the relationship and the investment.
Family co-buying can unlock buying power, but it requires extra clarity. Baby Boomer parents are looking into different ways to share their investments with children and often look to homeownership as a way to do this.
Common scenarios include:
Parents helping an adult child buy a primary home
Parents and adult children co-owning a multi-generational property
Families buying a shared vacation home
Important considerations:
Is this a gift, an investment, or shared ownership?
This is where clarity often breaks down, and where expectations can easily get misaligned. Being explicit about this upfront matters. Our platform helps make those conversations easier by clearly laying out ownership structure, roles, and terms through an operating agreement everyone can understand and agree to.
These conversations can feel awkward to start, which is exactly why we’ve made the process simple and straightforward. By giving structure to the details, we remove a lot of the confusion (and discomfort) so everyone can move forward with confidence.
How is equity divided?
What happens down the road with inheritance or sale?
This structure benefits from very clear documentation, even when intentions are loving and supportive.
Buying a home together before marriage, or without plans to marry, is becoming much more common! What’s less common is couples putting formal protections in place, like an operating agreement. Many partners have the conversations and come to verbal agreements about “what if we break up,” but without anything legally binding, those plans can fall apart when emotions and timelines change.
This setup works best when:
Finances are discussed openly
Expectations are written down
Exit plans are agreed upon in advance
An operating agreement is in place
Key questions to ask:
What happens if the relationship changes?
How are financial contributions tracked?
How will decisions be made long-term?
Love and clarity can coexist, and structure protects both.
If you want a real life example of what can happen without an operating agreement, we interviewed Courtney, a woman in her 30s who bought a home with her partner. When they eventually broke up, things stayed mostly amicable, but there were still moments that we wished were handled differently, and protections she wishes had been in place from the start.
Many co-buyers don’t fit neatly into one category, and that’s often where the most interesting setups emerge.
Some real world examples:
Buying a commercial property with others in your industry to create a shared coworking space
One owner living on-site while others invest (including silent investors)
Buying a château in France with friends to launch a summer camp (yes, this actually happened)
Two NYC couples co-buying a retreat house in Upstate New York
There are countless ways shared ownership can work. The setups that tend to feel the smoothest all have a few things in common: clear roles, shared tools, and consistent communication.
The most successful shared ownership stories don’t come from choosing the “perfect” structure.
They come from:
Alignment on goals
Transparency around finances
Clear expectations
Systems that support communication over time
If you’re exploring shared ownership, understanding these structures helps you ask better questions, and choose a setup that actually fits your life!